We are One
I recently accepted my first Hasidic client. Even though I try to stay away from labels, we have to know who our audience is, right? The black hat, the curls, the traditional style of dress - that is what I visualized. In order to do a good job, I felt it my responsibility to understand at the very least the fundamentals of this iconic group of God-loving people.
So I jumped right in and after some deep digging rented a video made in 1977, A Life Apart: Hasidism in America. Hypnotized is a good word to describe my initial glimpse into this culture. Then a friend suggested I watch the series Shtisel on Netflix. Three seasons, countless hours captivated my attention and for two months was at times the highlight of my week. The characters Shulom, Akivah, and Giti became like family to me. Lippe, my hero. Ruchami, a role model. Not that I watch many series, but this one from Israel is so beautifully done, with amazing character development, thoughtful videography that invites the viewer to partake in a sacred community. Watching these two pieces satisfied my curiosity and enabled me to better serve my client.
Initially, the Scope of Work was one thing and then it evolved into something totally different. To make a long story short, I wrote a grant for the Dept of Criminal Justice who through a program called Securing Communities Against Hate Crimes, supposedly mitigates ignorant acts of prejudice by strengthening buildings. The hoops and requirements were endless to borderline absurd (stewardship of taxpayer dollars?); the two different platforms inefficient. Nowhere throughout this process was there a hint or suggestion that alternative methods be used to “secure communities”. If awarded funds, the “grant” magically turns into a contract, and then of course strict rules and regs as to how money is reimbursed come into play. I digressed. Funds are to be spent on “securing buildings” with allowable expenses: locks, fences, video cameras, alarms, etc…..This approach of mitigating hate crimes also reinforces the victim mentality.
Hate crimes typically spring from ignorance. Why not suggest that all organizations get Restorative Justice Circles/ Counseling up and active in the community? Isn’t understanding and uniting communities, forming coalitions a better use of taxpayer dollars?
I realize that culturally, fear is the national consciousness, but I believe if we continue to build up walls and not seek to understand, hate crimes will more than likely continue.
My experience was revelatory mainly on two fronts. I am thankful and in awe that I had the privilege of working with the Hasidic community. They expanded my world view and I am a better person for having worked with this client. The work they do in the community is heartfelt, motivated by love and their vision is big. They are an extremely private, insular group of people who love the Creator of all and honor and hold steadfast to their beliefs and heritage.
Like so many other people groups, there may be misconceptions out there about the Hasidic Jews. I am sure people have misconceptions about me. As I too holdfast to my beliefs, I choose to remember that we are all one. It would serve us well to look for our commonalities.